After six months of putting it off.
You punch through the wall.
You can’t resist the tingle any longer.
That tingle’s got a name.
Before I share, let me deal with mine.
Right. Change of underwear, back in the game.
It’s called the Fresh Start Effect.
Some of us play this trick every Monday.
Birthdays.
Most wait for another stab at New Year, New Me.
If tomorrow’s a clean slate, tonight you bid the old you a fond farewell. Because half now, half tomorrow means tomorrow isn’t a fresh start any more. It’s just a continuation.
One last pizza.
One last plate of bang average spring rolls.
Two last bottles of wine.
One last B&J
Future you can deal with the guilt.
Present you wants (needs) one more night of it.
You’re building a world for a future self who doesn’t exist yet—and handing them a confidence they haven’t earned. That they’ll sort out the mess numerous versions of you couldn’t.
Versions that were younger, healthier, happier.
Future you is giddy at the idea of another fresh start.
You back your hapless, helpless, hopeful future self.
They’ve got this.
Steven Pressfield talks about The Resistance.
It never asks you to quit. It just asks you to start tomorrow.
Except tomorrow, you’re still the same person.
Tomorrow is where dreams go to die.
Where fresh starts repeat.
Because tomorrow will still be you.
A fresh start won’t make you younger.
But it could make you healthier.
Happier.
Not tomorrow.
But one tomorrow.
Is that a fresh start in your pants, or are you just happy to see me?